Talking With and About the Homeless – A New Year’s Resolution

by | Dec 30, 2017 | Formation, Reflections | 1 comment

Tis the season of New Year’s resolutions, a tradition that dates from before the time of Christ. It is also season of resolutions made, broken, ignored, and kept. I must admit I am not one to make New Year’s resolutions. When I did my track record was not very good.

A question hit me! I wonder how many people will make a resolution to talk with and about the homeless?

I remembered that the Vincentian Family will focus on the issues of homelessness. It even has formed a FamVin Homeless Alliance. Hmm! During the coming years, the Vincentian Family will be talking a lot about homelessness. What might be some New Year’s resolution that would help me enter this effort? I don’t mean something big like committing to work weekly in a homeless shelter.

Into my head popped the well-known words of Blessed Rosalie Rendu. “Never have I prayed so well as in the streets,” she would say.

Now that got me thinking about talking! Not any kind of talking. Talking to God about the homeless people. Talking with the homeless people I walk by. Talking on behalf of the needs of homeless people.

Talking with God about the homeless people I drive or walk past. Too often I am afraid that I live the warning of Jesus… “seeing they do to see.” What if I made a conscious effort to talk to God about the homeless person I see when I am stopped at the light? Thank you, Rosalie, for that one.

Talking with a homeless person. I mean really talking in the sense of engaging with a person. Even when I give something I can’t say I engage with that person.  God has called us by name. Think about what a difference that makes! What difference it might make to ask someone their name. It might be the only time that day that they hear their name spoken gently. But of course, we must first ask what is this person’s name.

Talking on behalf of homeless persons. No doubt the Vincentian Family will undertake many initiatives in the years between now and 2020. I may not be able to spearhead any of these initiatives. But maybe I can speak up when I hear of some piece of legislation that will either hurt or help the poor in my world.

Finally, If I listen, what can a homeless person teach me? As I reflected on all the above possibilities I recalled a very powerful brief video I did some years ago at a Vincentian Family Gathering. I had just heard Sr, MaryAnn Daly tell of being Evangelized by the Poor. So I asked her to share the powerful lessons learned at the wake of a homeless person who people walked past daily going into and out of building dedicated to serving the poor.

Thinking of these things, maybe this year I will make a very simple resolution other-directed New Year’s Resolution.

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    We have more homeless people than we realize. My daughter in Key West has been homeless since Irma struck. So are the many in Puerto Rico. In my daughter’s case, FEMA gave her temp. housing in a hotel room, but no efforts to rebuild her house have been made yet. Let us pray that relief is brought to these many people who are suffering for such a long time.

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