Membership in the Society, our Rule tells us, “is open to all those who seek to live their faith loving and committing themselves to their neighbor in need.” [Rule, Part I, 3.1] The Society is open, but are all of our Conferences open – are each of us open to “all those who seek to live their faith”?

The core work of the Society since its founding has been visiting the poor in their homes, and this remains the core work of the Society. Yet from our earliest days, these person-to-person encounters, these mutual relationships with the neighbor, have inspired other works. If we truly serve for love alone, if we truly seek to form relationships based on trust and friendship [Rule, Part 1, 1.9], how could they not lead us to other actions? If an old work friend suffered a job loss and needed a little help, of course we’d try to help – maybe with money, but even more importantly – perhaps even more obviously, we’d make a few calls to people in our industry and offer a recommendation for our friend in his job search.

In a similar way, when we reflect together in our Conferences on what we have seen and heard and learned from our neighbors, we will recognize more ways to remove barriers that make it difficult for them to move from poverty to self-sufficiency; not because we are analysts or social workers, but simply because that is what you do for your friends.

The ideas our members, especially new members, may offer will not always be “the way we do things around here,” but part of being a welcoming Conference is remaining open to the ideas of others. As Emmanuel Bailly put it in his Circular Letter of March 1844, “among us there are no masters to command the rest”. Instead, he explained, we are all brothers and sisters, friends with each other and the neighbor, in whose service we seek to live our faith.

If we are truly open, truly welcoming, then “we shall reject no reasonable proposal, no genuine improvement. Nothing is so injurious to the unity and progress of a Society as a tendency … to reject every idea that does not originate with ourselves, to subject to a rigorous and impossible uniformity, the free and spontaneous action of our Brothers…” [Bailly, CL, Mar 1844]

To be welcoming requires us not only to welcome new members, but to welcome new ideas – provided, of course, they do not contradict the Rule or Scripture. “When the Spirit inspires members, our first duty is to not get in the way! Vibrant Conferences grow by responding to new ideas not by saying ‘no’ but by asking ‘how?’ In welcoming new ideas, we welcome the members who offer them.” [Culture of Welcome]

Each of us brings to our shared Vincentian pathway our particular experiences, our particular gifts, and our particular ideas. In remaining open to those ideas, we grow in holiness together.

Contemplate

How can I be more welcoming to new members and new ideas?

By Timothy Williams,
Senior Director of Formation & Leadership Development
Society of St. Vincent de Paul USA.