Contemplation: Is It Okay?

Tim Williams
March 18, 2025

This post originally appeared on ssvpusa.org

“Is it okay if he sleeps there?” we ask ourselves, looking at the homeless man rolled up in his blanket outside the entrance to our parish hall. It is a simple question, but as is so often the case, simple does not mean easy. This is so partly because the question may be understood in more than one sense, but mostly because of the second question that is implied: “If it isn’t okay, what should I do about it?”

“Is it okay if he sleeps there?”, meaning, “Is it permitted?” is one sense in which we ask the question. It is fair to ask, since it may or may not be permitted to sleep in many places around town, but on our church property we haven’t any “No Trespassing” signs, so there doesn’t seem to be a rule against it. We certainly welcome all of our neighbors here. We share friendship and food and sometimes shelter when the weather is very bad. We can’t think of a reason his sleeping would be forbidden. He probably didn’t get much sleep in the overnight cold, so, yes, it’s okay if he sleeps there.

It’s a relief to conclude this, since if it were not okay, we would have some responsibility, as parishioners, to tell him to leave, wouldn’t we? Nobody wants to be the one to do that, much less to call law enforcement to remove him.

“Is it okay if he sleeps there?”, can also be understood to mean “Is it right?” In this sense, the answer seems much more obvious. Of course, it isn’t right. It isn’t right that the most comfortable place he could find to sleep on is a bench, a sidewalk, or the mud of an unplanted flower bed. It isn’t right that he’s homeless. So, since it isn’t okay, what should we do about it?

This is the Vincentian Question, lying before us on the sidewalk, challenging us with its insistence: what must be done? It is our Catholic Social Doctrine, wrapped in a dirty blanket, vividly reminding us that “something of the glory of God shines on the face of every person”. [CSDC, 144] It is our Lord and Savior, “the sacred image of that God whom we do not see”. [137, to Janmot, 1837]

God forbid,” Bl. Frédéric wrote, “That we should think of slandering those whom the Gospel blesses, of making the suffering classes responsible for their ills and of serving the insensitivity of the bad hearts who believe themselves exempt from helping the poor when they have established their wrongs![The Causes of Poverty, 1848]

It isn’t right that some are homeless, and it isn’t right that it is so hard to figure out the best way to help people overcome whatever demons, whatever past mistakes, or whatever current troubles are keeping them on the street, but we won’t stop trying. And in the meantime, it’s okay to follow Veronica’s example, offering what comfort we can, and to make “charity accomplish what justice alone cannot do.” [136, to Lallier, 1836]

Contemplate

What must I do? What must we do?

By Timothy Williams,
Senior Director of Formation & Leadership Development
Society of St. Vincent de Paul USA.


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